Ten myths about divorce and separation
Many clients come to us having been told information about divorce law, custody, separation, that is inaccurate or just plain wrong. A few of these stand out as myths that we hear over and over. This is the first installment of a series that attempts to correct some of these myths, so that you can be better informed and prepared to use the legal system.
Myth #1. “My spouse says s/he will sue me for abandonment if I leave the home to live somehwere else.” Truth: There is no such thing as “abandonment” of a functional adult. You are no more legally responsible for taking care of your spouse than s/he is for taking care of you. Both of you, of course, have a responsiblity to pay the family bills, and to take care of any children, both physically and financially. But you do not have to live with your spouse if you no longer want to. You will not be punished by the law if you choose to move out. After all, in every divorce or separation, someone must move out. It would be a very good idea to consult with a lawyer before you move, if possible. But if your personal safety is at stake, move first and get advice later. Your safety, and that of the children, is the most important consideration.
Watch this space for infomration on the next divorce myth.